| "Fear is the secret robber that steals away your joy."
Do you know that subjecting yourself to the dictates of fear will greatly build a fringe between you and your success? Fear though, is a natural feeling that no individual can be blamed for accepting, your ability to face your fear and overcome it, is an action statement that makes or mars your success. I do not believe that there are certain fears in life that are beyond being overcome, not even the fear of death, for, until death strikes, should any being stop striving. Take for example; a situation where a person is diagnosed of a chronic or life-threatening ailment; often for the fear of dying or becoming seriously ill, a lot of people lose hope of recovery even before their symptoms become physically visible, thereby giving way for a complete break- down of their entire system. I have seen people who on the other side, have come out triumphantly, living up to the challenges of such situations, with determination and more than not, succeeded with life. There is no doubt that a change of attitude towards those things we see as difficult or challenging is the key to bringing down our fears.
Why then do people give in to fear? Some people do because they can't find a way around it and help themselves off it, others are just too nervous to put in an effort. Ironically, if you don't boldly take a step at alleviating whatever fears you have, in expressing yourself, building a great career or other things preventing you from living life to the fullest, no one will do that for you. You may hope that help will come sooner than later, it has to start with your determination to face your challenges, otherwise you may never grow above your fears. Here are some of the reasons why some people succumb to the domination of what they fear and ways to tackle it.
Fear of being rejected- For the fear of being rejected, ridiculed or your ideas being cast off, a lot of people have failed to take steps that will lead to empowering them and taking control of their lives. When you fear that you will be rejected and thereby decide not to explore your potentials, you are in essence rejecting yourself.
To avoid temporary discomfort-When you retreat from the challenges you fear, you will never achieve those goals and aspirations you aim for due to your inability to fully develop your skills and talent and this would only give you the relief from the discomforts you will initially go through, having stepped forward for the big challenge. Essentially, tackling fear is about taking bold steps and believing you are stronger than your fears to the point of overcoming whatever the fear is. However, it is good to note that it is not an easy task. It is one that has to do with you stepping out of your comfort zone and be slightly discomforted. For example, having to learn new skills, change career, meet new prospects or taking up any new challenges, could stretch you out of your usual bounds, but not willing to take action is allowing fear to rob you of your creativity, power and ability.
Not to be labelled a failure- It is natural that the initial stage of any procedure gets unsteady, and we all know that it takes time to develop one's skill or talent at doing anything. The most important thing is the willingness to face it squarely. Some- times, when you want to impress the world around you, you will end up losing focus because your aims will be submerged.
You should follow your dreams push through fear and build your confidence. Fortunately too, when you develop yourself in a particular area, you will be marvelled at how you will discover more of your potentials in other areas. When you do not confront the fears that stand in opposition to your goal, you will only Sabotage your success, destroy your confidence, diminish your self-esteem and sink in the strength of your inadequacies.
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